That’s not what you wrote. You wrote: “A condom fails then neither party wants a pregnancy. There. With just a tiny bit of thought I trashed that view.”
You also seem to be under the impression this essay was written in response to news from last week. It was actually published last September.
Explaining that men cause pregnancy is not attacking men. Holding men accountable is not attacking men.
The reverse happens to women daily — they are entirely blamed for unwanted pregnancies. Oddly, you didn’t acknowledge that.