So if she says she’s on the pill that absolves the man from using birth control? Also if she’s trying to get pregnant that would be an intentional pregnancy. If he isn’t interested in her intentional pregnancy, then he better use a condom no matter what kind of birth control she says she’s on.

Are you telling me he’s willing to casually depend totally on her claim of birth control, even though he says he doesn’t want to cause a pregnancy, just so he can experience condom-less sex?

I wouldn’t say he’s oppressive, or even predatory, but I would say he is grossly irresponsible. The stakes are ENORMOUS with sex. In general, the burden of treating sex seriously has fallen to women, and the consequences associated have fallen almost exclusively to women. I’m simply asking men to step up and do their part by wearing a condom. Surely, you aren’t trying to argue with that?