Gabrielle Blair
2 min readMay 22, 2019

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Not at all. Women are 100% responsible for their own bodies and bodily fluids. Men are 100% responsible for their own bodies and bodily fluids. Men are the only ones who can produce and mobilize sperm. Sperm is the only thing that can fertilize and egg and cause a pregnancy. If men are interested in reducing abortions, they need to be sure they ejaculate responsibly.

It’s especially important for men to be responsible for their own bodies and bodily fluids, because as the essay details:

1) Men are always fertile. They never have to guess if it’s a fertile day; they know it is.

2) The man is 1000% in the best position to either prevent or cause a pregnancy due to simple human physiology.

3) Condoms are the easiest, cheapest, safest, simplest and most convenient way to prevent pregnancy — plus condoms don’t have side effects.

If you’re worried that women aren’t having to be responsible, put your mind at ease. Remember, if the man ejaculates irresponsibly, and causes an unwanted pregnancy, the woman has no choice but to deal with that pregnancy. The responsibility ends up entirely on her shoulders.

If you think women should be held more accountable for preventing pregnancy, then you’re in luck. Women already are! Women already do the vast majority of the work of pregnancy prevention. In fact, women account for 98% of the birth control market.

If you’re interested in reducing abortions, focusing on women is a waste of time. To reduce abortions, you need to focus on preventing unwanted pregnancies. Which means you need to focus on men and stopping irresponsible ejaculations.

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Gabrielle Blair
Gabrielle Blair

Written by Gabrielle Blair

Founder of #AltSummit. Creator of DesignMom.com. NYT Bestseller. Designer and mom of 6 — Ralph, Maude, Olive, Oscar, Betty, & June. Based in the U.S. & France.

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